That's a tricky one, but to be honest you've already answered your own question, not much between them but you prefer the Berghaus.
The wrist velcro is very important, you can lose loads of heat through those, sometimes you need to, sometimes you don't want to, velcro gives you the choice. The TNF hood looks quite good, but I haven't seen the Berghaus one to compare. I've got both TNF and Berghaus stuff, but mainly Berghaus, I like both, if it were me and the hoods are equal I'd go Berghaus.