Well went back in today to try em on for the last time, and will hopefully make the order soonish tonight.
I have decided on the North Face.
Because: The cuffs are fine, they are a good elasticity.
The jacket has a better fit on me
the hood is nicer and has a thicker part as a potential peak.
the hem and hood are adjustable.
it is lightweight (which isnt necessarily a good thing)
But I stil prefer the berghaus because it is thicker, so, in a sense, you get more for your money, and the material looks more expensive, if you know what I mean. The north face material looks sweet, but just not as expensive.
But overall the north face is my preference. But wow, it's damn hard to decide between two jackets!! lol
thanks for help all, much appreciated!